Adams Family Correspondence, volume 9

189 Abigail Adams Smith to Mary Smith Cranch, 8 February 1791 Smith, Abigail Adams Cranch, Mary Smith
Abigail Adams Smith to Mary Smith Cranch
New York Febuary 8th 1791

your kind attention my Dear Aunt demands an early acknowledgement, you judge very right that it would contribute greatly to my happiness could I be indulged with the society of my friends in your part of the world— I often do most ardently wish for it—but fate has ordered it otherwise—[and] I must submit— the removeall of my Mamma and her family from this place has deprived me of a very great portion of Happiness I am however blessed with very Kind friends in Colln Smiths family to whom I am much indebted for friendly attentions and agreeable society— I have neither inclination or desire to mix in society—and I have no intimate friends out of my family— I sometimes feel as if I Stood alone in the World, seperated from all my nearest Connections and Dearest friends— this Winter has been a tedious and solitary one—to me— my Chrildren afford me amusement and employment but they are yet too young to afford me much society— William is an amiable Manly Child— John is with my Mamma— I fear that he will require more firmness and authority than I wish to exercise over them to Govern him—but he is a fine Lively Animated disposition— and Hollis—bids fair from the Colour of his Hair and Complexion to be a firebrand but at present he is the mildest temper I ever observed in a Baby—1 the Government of their dispositions and a proper attention to their early education—is a task which I feel myself incompetant to the proper performance of— the schools in this place so far as I have had an opportunity of judgeing are not equal to those we have in Boston—early prejudices are not easily conquered my Dear Madam—but with respect to education its advantages and General influence upon society in my mind we yankees far surpass thease southern People but this would be treason if permitted to go beyond your own family

I expect that you will have the sattisfaction of my Mammas society the ensueing year it is Supposed that Congress will rise in March and will not meet again untill the Autumn She writes me that She shall be in New York—on her Way in April—2 it is an ill Wind that Blows nobody any good— I will not repine at the Loss I shall sustain so Long as those I respect and esteem are to reap the advantage I suppose that I shall have the pleasure of my Brother Charles Society which is some consolation to me— it would afford me great pleasure to make a visit to Braintree and its Environs—the 190next Summer—but I scarce dare flatter myself with the idea— should my friend return early in the Spring and all matters concur—I shall indeavour to [fulfill?] this desire—

the Loss of Mrs Quincys and her Daughters society must be an unpleasant circumstance to your family Braintree has been by degrees robbed of some of its brightest ornaments— Parson Wibird I presume remains to grace the scene remember me to my Unkle and Cousins particularly if you please and beleive me at all times your affectionate / Neice

A Smith—

Dear Madam

I have inclosed a little parcell to my Grandmamma under cover to you & will be obliged if you will present it to her as a small token of my remembrance—and let me know how she enjoys her health this Winter—

A Smith

RC (MWA:Abigail Adams Letters); addressed: “Mrs Mary Cranch. / Braintree—”; endorsed by Richard Cranch: “Letter from Mrs / A: Smith Feb: 8th / 1791.” Some loss of text where the seal was removed.

1.

This is the last reference in the Adams correspondence to Thomas Hollis Smith, who would die at age eleven months on 8 July (PPPrHi:RG 413, First Presbyterian Church [New York, N.Y.] Records).

2.

AA to AA2, 25 Jan., above.

Elizabeth Smith Shaw to Abigail Adams, 14 February 1791 Shaw, Elizabeth Smith Adams, Abigail
Elizabeth Smith Shaw to Abigail Adams
My Dear Sister— Haverhill February 14th. 1791

By my Sister I have been informed of your Sickness, & of the distressed State of your Family, which gave me great, pain, & anxiety— more espicially for my Cousin Thomas, who when your Letter was written was still in great distress—1 I am sure I know how to pity a sick Family—For in the course of the last year, there were four months, when we were severely exercised with Sickness, & the voice of Health was not heard for a long time in our House—

I am very glad Cousin Louisa was with you— It is very comfortable, & an happy Circumstance, to have an amiable Neice to assist one, in such difficult times— Such a kind, tender good Nurse as I have found in my Betsy Smith, (I hope) & do not doubt, but you have experienced in your Louisa— She was always very attentive to you, & we all loved her the better for it— I hope by this time you are all happily recovered, & in the full enjoyment of the inestimable 191Blessing of Health— Betsy Quincy is very sorry to hear Polly Taylor has suffered— They were great favorites of each others— She hopes she has got quite well by this time—

We have had the coldest Winter which has been known for these many Years— The coldest December that was ever felt here—2 You, I presume have experienced nothing of our severe season— A greater state of temperature cheers your Dwelling, & the rough winds pass softly, over your dear Face—a Face—that I hope to be favoured with a sight of in the ensuing Season—& I pray nothing may prevent—

I wrote to you not long since by Major McFarland, who was going to Phyladelphia to assist his Family, by endeavouring to procure to himself some pecuniary Office— But having reached Newyork was abrubtly told of the unhappy fate of a favourite Son, who was unfortunately disappointed in transacting some commercial buisiness for the Army at the Ohio—could not bear the dishonour, & as a fool dieth, so died he—by commiting a suicide— The News so affected his poor Father, that he was obliged to return immediately home, & has hardly been seen since—3

The Baron Stuben was so kind as to take charge of his business, & of my Letter to you, & one to Louisa from her Sister Betsy, both of which I hope you have received—4

I now write expecting to send this by a couple of worthy young Gentlemen, Dr Woodbury, & Mr Henry West— They are two very active, enterprizing Men of this Town— They have carried on business for sometime in Phyladephia, & are now going for the purpose of extablishing a more regular line of Trade—5 If it is convenient I wish my Sister would notice them— They will take pleasure in bringing Letters, & I hope you will be able to write to me by them— It is a great while since I have had a Line from you—

I believe there was never a Country more blessed than ours— The People are now enjoying there hard earnings— [There] is no murmering— no complaining in our streets—no—n[ews] of Taxs—the six Dollors a Day is almost forgot—6 Health through—the Land—Peace—& Plenty crown the Year—

I suppose you have heard that Major Rice was married to Miss Sophia Blake, & that the good Dr Howard had again entered the Hymeneal Band, with Miss Jerusha Gay— Ten thousand Blessings on his head— The sagacious Hinghamites will say, that he has now, only fullfilled what he ought to have done thirty years ago—only one revolution of Saturn since—7 I find it dificult not to contrast the 192celebrated beauty—the northern Star which once shed her benign Influences on his delighted head, with the Person, whom he is now connected— It is true that she is a most amiable woman, & has an excellent Character— But it is a degree of perfection (at which I presume he has arrived) to love virtue, for its own sake—8

Mr & Mrs Thaxter, & Cousin Betsy Smith are gone upon a visit to their Friends at Hingham, Braintree &ca I think he is really better, & has not had a Fit for several months— Cousin Betsy Thaxter spent two months in the Fall, with him— All we could do, & say, we could not prevail with her, to tarry the winter— But there was such a spirit of marrying had taken place among the Vestals at Hingham, that perhaps she wished to return before Cupids Flame was extinguished, while the Torch of Hymen was burning with unusual lustre, that she might be benifited by its sweet Influences—

Mr Shaw desires his best regards may be accepted by you, & Brother Adams, & believe me to be Yours most Affectionately

Elizabeth Shaw—

RC (Adams Papers); addressed: “Mrs. Abigail Adams / Phyladelphia”; docketed: “ E Shaw to Abigail / Adams 1791.” Filmed at 14 Feb. 1790. Some loss of text where the seal was removed.

1.

AA to Mary Smith Cranch, 12 Dec. 1790, above.

2.

December and January had been extremely cold. “No winter since the peace has been more rigourous, or met the city less provided against the inclemency of the weather, than the present,” the Boston Gazette reported on 17 Jan. 1791.

3.

Nathan McFarland (b. 1768), son of Maj. Moses and Eunice Clark McFarland, was responsible for delivering food supplies to the army near Pittsburgh. On 27 Nov. 1790, failing to meet his business obligations, he shot himself (C. M. Little, History of the Clan Macfarlane, Tottenville, N.Y., 1893, p. 117, 133).

4.

Shaw's letter is at 6 Dec., above.

5.

Dr. Edward Woodbury (1761–1793) and Henry West (1759–1846) of Haverhill (Vital Records of Haverhill Massachusetts to the End of the Year 1849, 2 vols., Topsfield, Mass., 1910–1911, 2:488, 497).

6.

In the Salaries—Legislative Act of 22 Sept. 1789 Congress had famously voted to pay its members six dollars a day for attendance and an additional six dollars for every twenty miles traveled to get to the seat of government. Critics found the amount excessive and the six dollars figure was frequently cited thereafter in discussions of the faults of government ( First Fed. Cong. , 6:1833; Boston Herald of Freedom, 14 May 1790; Boston Columbian Centinel, 1 Sept.).

7.

It takes Saturn 29 ½ years to complete one revolution around the sun.

8.

Rev. Simeon Howard wed his first wife, the beautiful Elizabeth Clarke Mayhew, on 3 Dec. 1771. She died on 13 April 1777, shortly after the birth of their third child ( Sibley's Harvard Graduates , 14:282, 284). See also Mary Smith Cranch to AA, 12 Dec. 1790, and note 2, above.